"He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure." Psalm 40:2

Just lookin’ for a reason

In my regular Bible reading today I read through Mark chapter 3, and one particular phrase really stuck out to me.

And [Jesus] entered again into the synagogue; and there was a man there which had a withered hand. And they [the Pharisees] watched him, whether he would heal him on the sabbath day; that they might accuse him. And he saith unto the man which had the withered hand, Stand forth. And he saith unto them, Is it lawful to do good on the sabbath days, or to do evil? to save life, or to kill? But they held their peace. And when he had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, he saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out: and his hand was restored whole as the other. ~ Mark 3:1-5 ~ (emphasis mine)

They watched him…that they might accuse him.

I wonder how often I allow myself to enter or remain in that state of heart.

I am certain that I don’t engage in “setting up” people as the Pharisees often did with Christ, yet I do observe others as they enter challenging situations and admittedly I often watch how they handle themselves — intentionally looking for fault.

As mothers we are charged with the oversight of our families, and as church members we’re quite often charged with the oversight of some practical aspect of church or service. In settings such as these it is important that we take our responsibilities seriously, and provide training and correction as needed as well as encouragement. Our responsible oversight in the areas we’re charged with should be taken seriously.

Yet, how often do we slip from responsible oversight to nit-picking and fault finding?

How often do we presume to oversee people over whom we have no actual authority?

How often do we watch those we’re called to love, almost eagerly waiting for them to give us a reason to complain or to prove our negative assumptions about them to be true?

How often are we just looking for an excuse to accuse or complain?

Let us not be as the Pharisees, intentionally finding fault. Let us not be as the foolish woman who tears down her house with her own hands (Prov 14:1). Let us not lie in wait against our husbands or our children just biding our time until we find the next reason to accuse them.

Let us not lie in wait against our brothers and sisters in Christ – especially those in our local body – but rather seek to encourage one another, exhort one another, and maintain unity & love with each other. After all, that’s meant to be one way the world knows that we’re disciples of Christ (John 13:35).

I…beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. ~ Ephesians 4:1-3 ~

2 Responses to “Just lookin’ for a reason”

  1. Marianne Lordi

    Good message and a great reminder to us all. It has been said that those things that you hate most in someone else is actually that which you hate most in yourself. So when you become overly critical of someone, examine yourself to see first if there is a log in your own eye before you take the speck from someone else’s eye.

    • Jenni

      You’re absolutely right. Sometimes those logs are really hard to see – and then in hindsight it’s hard to believe we couldn’t see them before. I’m so thankful we serve a patient Savior, who’s faithful to complete the good work He’s begun in us.

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